Should Parents Cancel Netflix? Protecting Your Kids From Grooming Risks

Streaming platforms have become fixtures in family life, but not all entertainment is innocent. In 2025, the conversation about Netflix’s influence on children has reignited as new programming choices, corporate statements, and public controversies raise serious questions about values, safety, and responsibility.

Tech leader Elon Musk renewed his 2020 warning to parents, urging them once again to “Cancel Netflix for the health of your kids,” after the platform released a slate of youth-oriented shows criticized for exposing children to adult themes.

Why Netflix Is Still Under Fire

1. The Lingering Impact of *Cuties*

The 2020 backlash over *Cuties* hasn’t faded. In fact, it set the stage for ongoing distrust among parents who feel Netflix continues to push boundaries. Child-safety advocates argue the company learned little from the controversy, pointing to a pattern of content that normalizes premature sexual awareness among young viewers.

2. 2025 Controversies: *Strawberry Shortcake* and *Dead End: Paranormal Park*

In early 2025, Netflix faced renewed criticism for *Strawberry Shortcake: Berry in the Big City* after parents accused the show of pushing gender ideology through the introduction of transgender characters. The debate followed a similar backlash from *Dead End: Paranormal Park*, where parents said the storyline blurred the line between representation and indoctrination.

Public figures like Elon Musk and several family advocacy groups called out the streaming giant for using children’s programming to advance adult conversations about sexuality.

3. Algorithmic Exposure and Parental Control Challenges

Another growing concern in 2025 is the way Netflix’s algorithm recommends mature content. Even when parental controls are enabled, kids can encounter previews and thumbnails that depict adult themes.

According to the Parents Television and Media Council, these algorithms may expose children to inappropriate visuals long before parents realize what’s happening. Advocates recommend that families consider switching to curated alternatives like VidAngel or PureFlix for greater control.

What This Means for Stepfamilies

Blended families often juggle varying household rules and media standards. For stepdads, navigating these waters can be especially difficult. One parent may see certain shows as harmless, while another views them as a moral hazard. Protecting children requires unity, consistency, and transparency across both homes.

Practical steps for stepdads include:

• Holding family meetings to discuss screen-time expectations and explain content choices.

• Use filtering tools or switch to safer platforms with Christian or family-oriented programming.

• Model discernment by limiting your own media exposure and setting a good example.

• Encouraging open dialogue when children have questions about what they see online.

A Faith and Family Perspective

Ultimately, canceling Netflix may not solve every problem, but taking a stand shows your family where your priorities lie. Our children are growing up in a digital world filled with competing voices.

As Christian parents and stepdads, our calling is to guard their hearts and minds, helping them find truth and identity in Christ — not in Hollywood’s latest release.

By leading with love, faith, and intentionality, stepdads can shape stronger families and raise children who understand that protecting their minds is a vital part of honoring God.

Do wonder if your child is being groomed? Click here to learn the warning signs and what to do to protect your child from sexual abuse.

About the author

In 1995, Gerardo became a stepdad to two children, a boy and a girl, ages 14 and 10. In 2011, he started the website Support for Stepfathers to reverse the nearly 70% divorce rate for blended families in the United States. His website is to help and inspire stepfathers, aspiring stepfathers, and the women who love them worldwide. You can follow Support for Stepdads on Twitter and Facebook.