While there isn’t an “official” day for stepdads, it’s important to take a moment to appreciate bonus dads and their role in our lives. Stepdads prove that love can go beyond DNA, whether they become an essential part of their young stepchildren’s lives or guide them through adolescence.
In fact, under unfortunate circumstances, stepdads can become the primary parental figure in a child’s life. At the same time, they can partner with their stepchildren’s biological parents to create an entire team of supportive role models. Bonus dads may play more of a mentorship role in a child’s life, and that’s just as important.
We recognize that being a stepfather can feel lonely and undervalued. Thus, we want to reiterate that you are appreciated. It takes a lot of love and sacrifice to become a stepfather, especially when it comes down to a choice. Becoming a stepfather is love in its purest form; recognition of your partner’s family and embracement of their children.
As an anonymous quote explains, “A child cannot have too many people who love them and want to help them succeed.” this is the fundamental honor of being a stepdad. Even if you’re not the first person your stepchild turns to for advice, you’re still an essential part of their life. Even if they don’t mention it all the time, your stepchildren appreciate you.
It’s vital to acknowledge your stepfather and thank them for being a part of your family. On the other hand, if you have a stepfather in your life, take some time to say thank you. If you didn’t spend time with them on father’s day, take the initiative to make plans with them. If you live far away from your bonus dad, hop on a Zoom meeting, phone call, or send them a card.
Fun Ways to Celebrate your Bonus Dad
Here are some more fun and creative ways to spend time with your bonus dad this year:
- Throw a party
- Have a picnic
- Host a game night
- Share stories from both sides of the family
- Have a movie night
- Watch live music together
- Have a cook-out
- Arrange a spa day
- Play video games together
- Spend time outside
- Plan a vacation with your stepdad
In honor and recognition of bonus dads everywhere, we wish you a very happy Stepfather’s Day! Here’s how to thrive as a new stepdad.
