It’s hard to think of a bigger single action in our personal lives that carries more weight than a marriage proposal.
You only get one chance to do it right, so put a good deal of thought and effort into it beforehand, then go out and win the heart of your future spouse. Here are some great ways to prepare to ask the big question.
The First Date Re-visited
If your first date was memorably special, the place might serve as the perfect backdrop for your big question. Stir up those first emotions of excitement, anticipation and joy as you re-visit the place where you first connected.
And of course, the ambience will be even better if you can do it under all the same conditions – the same time of day and year.
You don’t even need to make it explicit – just by meticulously going through the same routine you did on your first outing together, you’ll stir those tender feelings.
Propose on a high point – after dinner, and when you’re both relaxed and content. The lingering essence of your first date should supercharge the atmosphere.
Put it In Writing – In The Sky!
Skywriting is the art of creating messages in the sky using smoke from a small biplane.
There’s something absolutely magical about seeing a personalised proposal actually written in the sky, and your partner will be sure to be swept off his or her feet.
Skywriting only lasts a few minutes, so you’ll need to time things just right, and remember to bring a camera to capture the moment while it lasts.
The Classic Dinner Date
If you see yourself as more of a traditionalist, the classic dinner date could be the perfect fit for your proposal. A sumptuous dinner at a high-end restaurant, fantastic wine and a lovely atmosphere all serve to create just the right romantic tone for your proposal.
You could even hire musicians to serenade you as you get down on one knee. Sometimes, old-fashioned is best – if that’s your style, you’ll undoubtedly take your partner’s breath away.
Make a Day Of It – The Picnic Proposal
Wait for a beautiful day, and take your partner to an out-of-the-way natural location for a day of food, wine and nature.
Start early in the morning and drive to a beautiful site away from the hustle and bustle of the city. Put yourself in a good mood and really let her know just how much you love her with your words and actions.
Maybe walk together in the woods or on the beach, and at the end of the day, bring forth the ring.
You can pop the big question relaxing and watching the sunset together, or you could surprise your partner in the car on your way home. Either way, the experience of the day will be the perfect build-up to an amazing proposal.
Do it At Zero G
Space tourism is still a few years away from the mainstream, but in the meantime, a zero-G proposal in a passenger airplane might just be the coolest way to propose.
Zero G flights are run by the Zero G corporation. They fly planes high in the atmosphere on a trajectory that gives passengers several minutes of weightlessness – you literally end up floating around inside the plane.
The flight in itself is exciting enough… but combine it with a marriage proposal while you’re floating in midair, and you’re sure to seriously impress your partner.
The company has catered to several marriage proposals, and should be able to help you with arrangements for yours.
Christmas Proposal
Christmas is a wonderful occasion to pop the big question – it’s already a time of joy, family and good will. It provides the perfect setting for proposing marriage.
There are a number of ways you could do it. Perhaps put the ring in a small box, hanging from the top of the tree, or wrap it in many layers and boxes, so it’s disguised as a larger present.
You and your partner will remember your proposal for years to come. Put some thought, heart and effort into it – it could be the start of a wonderful new level of connection and closeness in your relationship.
Marcus Falley is a contributor to Study Now, Australia’ biggest directory of online courses including wedding planning courses! In addition to writing for Study Now, Marcus is a keen amateur surf ski paddler, photographer and marathon runner.
