Father’s Day is June 19th, and while there’s still time to find that “perfect gift,” please remember that giving gifts doesn’t always mean giving things. There are Father’s day activities that will gladden your stepdad’s heart.
While giving presents is wonderful, how many ties or socks does your wonderful stepdad need? Material gifts get holes, go out of style, break, or are left unused or unworn on the shelf. However, one gift will create lasting memories for everyone involved – the gift of time.
Remember if you can’t make it happen on Father’s Day you can always set aside your own special day for honoring your stepdad. Take advantage of the opportunity to let your stepfather know how much you care and appreciate him while the opportunity still exists.
Here is several “gift of time” ideas for spending with your stepfather on Father’s Day.
Movies
You can take your stepfather to the movies. However, if he’s a homebody, you can also pick up copies of your stepdad’s favorite movies from the local video store and popcorn, candy, and soda. Make sure you’ve taken care of all outside distractions before hitting “play” sit back and relax.
Fishing
If your stepdad loves to fish, then he’d probably leap 😀 at a fishing invitation. Don’t worry about having the right bait or lures for whatever’s biting down at the lake.
You’re there for the experience of hanging out with each other. If you catch something – great! If you don’t, you’ve still built memories of time shared.
Camping
If your stepdad is an outdoorsman, take him camping. Plan on going hiking or mountain climbing if he’s the adventurous type. Take responsibility for organizing the entire trip. At the same time, you can enjoy nature.
A weekend away camping is a nice break from the hectic, fast-paced lifestyle we’re confronted with. Plan a family picnic at your dad’s favorite site if a weekend campout isn’t possible.
Game Night
Host a family game night if other family members want to participate in the Father’s Day activities. Chances you have at least one old board game that has just been collecting dust in the closet Games like Monopoly, Uno, Sorry, Yahtzee and Scrabble are good choices. If your stepdad used to be a card shark, he might enjoy a good game of cards.
SPA
Treat your stepfather to pampering, a massage, and other treatments at your local SPA. Consider getting him a manicure and facial – you’ll leave the spa rejuvenated.
Active Alternatives
If your stepdad is wild-at-heart, you can take him go-karting or challenge him to a paintball game. If he’s like me and a little more subdued take him to play miniature golf or if he’s a kid at heart give a couple of rolls of quarters and take him to the local arcade. You can also go biking or rollerblading.
Father’s Day Comedy Roast
If your stepdad has a good sense of humor and can take comedic insults, praise, outlandish true and untrue stories, and heartwarming tributes, then host his roasting with family and friends.
Your stepfather will receive this as a great honor. It is seen as a great honor to be roasted. Ideally, each family member should develop something interesting from their unique viewpoint. Make sure your stepdad is seated in the position of honor.
Learn a Skill
Learn a skill your stepfather is good at. Your stepdad will love to pass on this knowledge, and you will have something new to share. You can also involve your stepdad in one of your favorite hobbies.
BBQ
A barbeque is a great way to cap off the day. Gather the family together for a barbeque where everyone in the family can get involved. A barbeque set is also an excellent gift idea, and your stepfather can put his new gift to use right away.
Sporting Event
If your dad loves sports, take him to an athletic event. Pick a sport he enjoys and take him, or if he prefers being an active participant, you can play a game of tennis or golf if that’s what he enjoys.
What better way to bond with dad than by watching the game together over hot dogs and popcorn, rather than at home where the two of you are constantly interrupted?
Kodak Moment
Take a picture of the whole family. Once the picture is developed, please give it to your stepdad in a picture frame. This will show him your appreciation and allow him to remember the day until you think of something to do for next year.
Helper
If your dad would rather stay at home, you can always help and join him in one of the activities he wants to engage in. If, for example, he needs to fix the shed or wash the car, offer to help him. This makes for excellent quality time with your dad, and this way, you’re helping him out by making yourself handier.
This Father’s Day, make it your goal to make it one of the most memorable occasions for your stepfather. Select an activity that involves both you and your stepdad or one where the entire family can enthusiastically participate. Be intentional, begin planning, and follow through to give your stepdad the gift of time.
