How to Be a Good Stepdad

Stepfather Of The Bride Wedding Speech ~ Biological Father Present

If the biological father will not be present at your stepdaughter’s wedding go to Stepfather of the Bride Wedding Speech ~ Biological Father not Present. For tips on preparing your speech go to Stepdad Tips for Preparing Your Stepdaughter’s Wedding Speech.  

Scenario – Biological Father Present

This is your stepdaughter’s special day. You want this day to be a wonderful memory for everyone involved.

Be sure to take the extra effort and care to ensure it is just that. 

If her biological dad is present you’ll want to avoid doing or saying anything that would bring up or focus negative attention on you and her biological dad.

For example, if her biodad is present you may need to refrain from referring to her as your daughter. 

Aside from talking about her, you can throw in some nice remarks about her new husband. Regardless if you like him or not, it’s your stepdaughter’s day and her choice so it’s best to play nice.

Remember, your speech will be one of several on your stepdaughter’s wedding day. Keep your speech to a length respectful of that.

Tips

The time and effort you invest in preparing and delivering your speech will speak volumes of the relationship and feelings you have toward your stepdaughter. Using any combination of these tips will make your speech one she’ll always remember.                                                     

  • Know your Speech. Don’t wing it. Even the pros prepare. 
  • Practice, Practice, Practice.
  • Relax. One, repeat one, glass of wine will help calm your nerves. It’s an important speech but it’s not life or death. Mistakes are okay, acknowledge them and move on.
  • Speak with Poise. Pace yourself and speak at a normal pace.          
  • Eye Contact. Connect with your audience by looking at them in the eye.

A Wedding Speech from a Father who Put it All Together 

As the Stepfather of the Bride, you probably already have a lot of responsibility on your plate. Especially in the time leading up to the wedding and of course the wedding day itself.

Don’t stress about writing a speech. Get the help you need in crafting a heartfelt and memorable Stepfather of the Bride speech.

ebook cover for father of the bride speeches

 

Gerardo Campbell

I was born in America's heartland, Nebraska. I started this website out of desire to make a positive difference in the lives of stepfathers and their families. In 1995, I married my ex-wife and became a stepfather to her two children then 10 and 14. I have a biological son, Nathaniel and live in Silicon Valley, California.

Related Articles

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Back to top button
Translate »