There are three options open to you when something is asked of you in life -
A) you can say no and maybe nothing changes for good or bad,
B) you can say yes, grudgingly and with luck nothing changes for the worse,
C) or you can say yes with an open heart full of good intent and kindness and know that your generous act changes the world for the better in some little way.
Luckily, for me and my sisters, my step-mom chose option “C.”