The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate
During his 30+ years experience as a marriage counselor, Dr. Gary Chapman has heard it all. He’s helped couples at every stage of marriage and at pivotal points in their relationships – from those just discovering the joys and trials of marriage to those who are ready to call it quits.
After many years of counseling, Dr. Chapman noticed a pattern: everyone he has ever counseled had a “love language,” a primary way of expressing and interpreting love. He also discovered, for whatever reason, people are usually drawn to those who speak a different love language than their own.
Of the countless ways we can show love to one another, five key categories, or five love languages, proved to be universal and comprehensive – everyone has a love language, and we all identify primarily with one of the five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service and Physical Touch.
Since The 5 Love Languages debuted in 1992, over five million copies were sold, making The 5 Love Languages a perennial New York Times bestseller. Numbers, however, doesn’t measure the influence the book has had on couples and their marriages.
The 5 Love Languages has helped countless couples identify practical and powerful ways to express love, simply by using the appropriate love language. Many husbands and wives who had spent years struggling through marriages they thought were loveless discovered one or both spouses had long been showing love through messages that weren’t getting through. By recognizing their different love languages, they witnessed the rebirth of the love they thought was gone for good.
The 5 Love Languages was translated into more than 40 languages and is healing marriages around the world! The Heart of the Five Love Languages another book authored by Dr. Chapman is an abridged version of The 5 Love Languages.